I’ve learned that inner #peace is the single & most solitary #powerful element. I’ve learned to #love & I’ve learned to #letgo. I’ve learned to #accept what will be will be even if it hurts & shakes me to my core. With inner peace I developed true, #selflove. With self love, I developed true, inner peace. I’ve learned to live & I’ve learned to let others live. I cannot #change others if they have no desire to change themselves. Without inner peace, you simply cannot love another #person. We tend to lose ourselves – we simply cannot love another when you lose your self image & #identity to fix & give to another person. I’ve been through the deepest & darkest pits in my #life – but I can say I’m proud to have learned from those experiences & to have finally closed those #haunting chapters. Being trauma bonded, manipulated, lied to, cheated on, & falling for abuse given the fact that I am an empath, had left me broken & with the loss of my identity. These predators feed off of the #positivity & thrive for supply because it is something they wish to rewrite for themselves & themselves only… AT YOUR OWN EXPENSE. Narcissists, charming & all, naturally cling on to you to mimic your #essence & being; they are envious & predatory. The #abuser, wears a mask and rolls with a facade wishing to be like #you. This stems from bad experiences, traumatic events, & from #childhood, that make them cope by defense mechanisms – once exploited or feeling they’ve exposed you inside & out, they discard you & trash you. Next victim. You wished to save this poor, lifeless #soul and they know it – they will only come back for more supply bringing the same facade during that lovebombing stage – the one where you had beautiful moments and times together – the intermittent stages coupled with #abusive tendencies and #codependency but too blind to see; it all seems familiar for you to go back, but it is just for themselves… Not only is there #ZERO possibility or desire of #truth for reconciliation, most importantly, there is zero actual #benefit for the victim.
DO NOT ALLOW YOUR RIGHT SIDE OF YOUR BRAIN, WHICH IS THE EMOTION SIDE, OR THE UNCONSCIOUS MIND, WEIGH HEAVIER THAN YOUR LEFT SIDE OF YOUR BRAIN, WHICH IS THE LOGIC SIDE, OR THE CONSCIOUS MIND. DO NOT FALL VICTIM.
#narcissist #narcissisticabuse #stopabuse #survivor #victim #realitalianguru #theitalianguru #christophercarovillano
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